The ONLY thing you owe your girlfriend is courtesy and respect,
You don’t owe her jerk!
You are not responsible to footing her bills.
Free yourself from that mad mentality.
If you want to look after a woman, go and look after your mother.
If your girlfriend needs looking after, let her get a job.
Every money or gift you give to a girlfriend has no spiritual value to your blessings.
But if even you give your mother a cup of water when she is thirsty, that gift has spiritual impartation that affect your status both financially and materially,
it helps your prosperity.